Eva Mendes reveals what's the hardest part of motherhood alongside Ryan Gosling

Eva Mendes may not frequently share family photos with Ryan Gosling, but when it comes to being a mother to their two daughters, Esmeralda and Amada, she's all about authenticity. In a heartfelt episode of Parenting & You With Dr. Shefali, Eva opened up about the challenges she faces in her parenting journey and the habits she's striving to change from her own upbringing.

One of the most significant challenges she discussed is her tendency to yell. She candidly shared, "I don't yell when they need me. I'm never like 'shut up.' It's not like a 'mean' yell, but it doesn't matter. I yell. And it's this yelling that I find so cultural." It's clear that she recognizes the impact of her upbringing on her parenting style.

Eva admitted, "I'm having a hard time getting through and not yelling. The rushing and the yelling, that's the hardest thing to me." Her honesty about this struggle highlights her desire to create a nurturing environment for her daughters.

During the podcast, Eva became emotional as she reflected on her fears of repeating the past. "I hope I don't look back in 20 years and go 'oh shoot,' because I really don't want to raise by fear. That's the one-sorry, I get emotional over it-because it's so not fair to the kids," she said, tears welling in her eyes. This vulnerability shows how deeply she cares about the kind of childhood she provides for Esmeralda and Amada.

Eva discusses overcoming parenting patterns

Growing up with Cuban parents, Eva acknowledges the love that surrounded her but also the elements she wants to change. "I was surrounded by love as a child - but also an element of fear," she reflected. This acknowledgment drives her commitment to breaking those patterns for her daughters. She wants to ensure they grow up feeling secure and loved, rather than fearful.

Eva's candidness about her parenting struggles resonates with many parents who face similar challenges. She emphasizes that it's okay to be imperfect and that recognizing areas for growth is part of the journey. "I'm just trying to be better every day," she said, capturing the essence of her commitment to personal growth.

Her willingness to share these intimate details about her parenting journey serves as a reminder that even celebrities grapple with real-life challenges. Eva's journey is not just about fame; it's about being a dedicated and loving mother.