Vancouver bakery calls out former NBA player for requesting free birthday cake

Fanny Lam, owner of Oh Sweet Day! Bake Shop in East Vancouver says she gets hit up constantly with requests for free products: 'For us, this isn’t about one cake' Photo by Arlen Redekop /PNG

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A Vancouver bakery owner is pushing back after a celebrity couple asked for a free birthday cake, calling the request “outrageous” and questioning whether social media exposure is a fair trade for small businesses.

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Fanny Lam, owner of Oh Sweet Day! Bake Shop, received an email last week from a representative of former NBA all-star Metta Sandiford-Artest and his wife, model and actress Maya Sandiford-Artest, asking about a “collab opportunity” for their child’s birthday party at a Richmond farm this weekend.

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Lam knew what “collab” meant. “We’ve received requests like this every day,” she said. “For us, this isn’t about one cake.”

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Oh Sweet Day!, which opened as a small storefront on East First Avenue near Commercial Drive seven years ago and expanded to a second location in Port Moody last year, receives requests for free products and collaborations almost every day.

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Lam says yes to charities and community organizations, but almost always turns down requests from “influencers” and corporations.

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This request, however, struck her as inappropriate because of the imbalance.

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“It raises a question of why small businesses like us who often have the least resources to spare are being asked to constantly provide free products for people or organizations that can afford to pay for them.”

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Lam shared screenshots of the email request on Instagram to spark a conversation about influencer culture, as well as highlight an experience she said small businesses constantly face.

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The email said the couple’s representative was “reaching out to a select few local vendors of their choosing that they’d love to feature as part of the day.” It pointed out that the family has a “strong social media following” and “will be sharing the celebration across their platforms, including posts/stories crediting and tagging participating vendors.”

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For Lam, it was not a fair exchange. The custom cake requested by the family would have cost roughly $200 to $300, based on the number of servings and design.

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“Our business relies on word of mouth and support from our paying customers,” she said. “Exposure isn’t our main focus. Exposure doesn’t pay the bills.”

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Lam’s post prompted an outpouring of support, with commenters describing the request as “wild,” “deeply inappropriate” and “atrocious.”

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Sandiford-Artest, previously known as Metta World Peace and Ron Artest, earned an estimated $85 million US over his NBA career. Since retiring, he has parlayed that success into the business world, launching a management and consulting firm, and has become a mental health advocate.

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Metta Sandiford-Artest, then known as Metta World Peace, folds his hands over his head during a game on February 7, 2013 at TD Garden in Boston. Photo by Jared Wickerham /Getty Images

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He also has a personal connection to B.C. His wife grew up on Vancouver Island and attended UBC. Both have substantial social media followings.

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The couple did not respond to a request for comment.

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Eric Li, a professor at UBC Okanagan and an expert in digital marketing, said that from a marketing perspective, collaborations can make sense, particularly as marketing budgets increasingly shift toward digital and social media.