Opinion: Vancouver is a beautiful city, but its people can't afford to love it anymore

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I stopped in front of the Murakami house.

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Otokichi Murakami — a Japanese boat builder who constructed his life on this wharf, plank by plank — until a wartime government decision tore him from everything he had made.

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On one visit, I found an old man bent over a marine engine. A volunteer. He came every week, along with dozens of others — retired carpenters, mechanics, people who could not let the place go.

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I asked him why.

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He wiped his hands and said, quietly: “In the ’80s, bulldozers were coming for this place. We stopped them. Then they wanted to charge admission. We refused. This place carries the sweat and the grief and the injustice of real people. You cannot price that.”

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I thought about Mortada and Edison and Adam. About what it costs — not in money — when people no longer have enough of themselves left to show up for the things they love.

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Britannia Shipyards survived because people had enough left to fight for it.

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I wonder, sometimes, how much fight is left.

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In Guangzhou, China, a friend booked us into something called the “Museum Hotel.” I assumed it was a marketing name.

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When I opened the door, I stopped.

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China in the 1950s — preserved not as spectacle, but as memory. A rotary telephone. A Singer sewing machine. A black-and-white television in a wooden cabinet.

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And in the corner — a small wooden rocking horse. Its red-and-yellow paint faded almost to nothing.

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I stood there longer than I could explain. I did not know whose it was. But something about the faded paint, the stillness — the suggestion of a child who once had time to play — felt like a question I wasn’t ready to answer.

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In Riyadh, I found the last piece in a place I did not expect.

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Every Wednesday evening, Sheikh Abdullah — my friend’s father — opened his home. People came with troubles, stories, silences.

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Saudi hospitality has a grammar of its own. Someone watches your cup — not intrusively, just attentively — and the moment it empties, it is refilled without a word. This continues until you shake the cup gently from side to side. That small gesture, that quiet signal, is how you say: I have had enough. I am full. Thank you.

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I kept coming back, Wednesday after Wednesday. And slowly, I understood not just the language, but what the gathering itself was saying.

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Here, time was not a cost. It was a gift. When someone needed help, everyone moved at once. No calculation, no hesitation.

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I thought of Mortada’s ducks and Edison’s quiet dishwashing and Adam’s jokes that used to arrive without effort. I thought of the volunteer at Britannia, and the child who once rode that rocking horse — in a time before every hour carried a price.

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Vancouver is one of the most beautiful cities on earth.

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I believe that. I chose it. I walk its seawall in the early morning when the mountains are still in cloud, and feel something close to gratitude.

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But beauty is not enough to hold a city together.

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What holds a city together is the willingness of people to show up for each other. To take an afternoon that could have been spent working and spend it watching an eagle instead. To bring food. To let the conversation drift. To be, for a few hours, somewhere that is not the relentless calculation of survival.

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Vancouver is pricing that willingness out of existence.

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Britannia Shipyards survived because ordinary people refused to let their history become a product. The question this city must now answer is whether its people will have enough left — enough time, enough ease, enough of themselves — to do the same for each other.

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Heritage is belonging. It is the feeling that pulls you toward a place, makes you part of it, and quietly asks you to leave it better than you found it.

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And right now, in this city I chose and love, I am watching that belonging disappear — one cancelled afternoon at a time.

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Osama Elemary is a writer and museum strategy consultant based in Vancouver and Calgary. Originally from Tanta, Egypt, he works across Canada, the Middle East, and the Arab world. His writing has appeared in the Calgary Herald.

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